Despite his achievements, Kwoon Meng remained remarkably low-profile, never seeking recognition or fanfare.  Yet, beneath that humble exterior beat a generous and compassionate heart.  He was a living embodiment of the Paulian spirit as one who never forgot his roots and lived by the profound principle of giving back to the alma mater that shaped him.  Having lost his father at a tender young age, he was thrust into the role of supporting his family of eight siblings and his mother.  Before dawn, he would help at the poultry stall in the market, then pedal a heavily overloaded bicycle delivering newspapers to earn extra income to support the family, all before rushing to school.  These early struggles forged in him a deep empathy for the plight of needy and deserving students.

 

His name is forever synonymous with the “Brother Felix Donahue Student Welfare Fund”.  Initiated in 2010 by the Class of 1970 in conjunction with their 40th anniversary, the fund was established to provide financial assistance to deserving Form 6 students through the Old Paulians’ Association as Trustee.  Kwoon Meng was not only one of the key initiators but also a major donor from the very beginning.  His personal story of hardship and struggles made him deeply committed to ensuring that no Paulian would have to struggle as he once did.  Over the years, the fund has grown through contributions from Paulians both locally and abroad, particularly from those in Singapore, Australia, Canada and New Zealand.  Many young Paulians have benefitted from this support, successfully pursuing higher education in public and private universities across the country.

 

Beyond the BFD Student Welfare Fund, Kwoon Meng’s generosity extended to numerous other initiatives at St Paul’s Institution.  He made significant donations towards the furnishings of the ECM Libra Hall and the construction of the new Administration Block (Bro Felix Donahue Building) at SPI Secondary.  Time and again, whenever the OPA approached him for support, his response was always a gracious and unequivocal “yes”.

 

As a dedicated OPA member, Kwoon Meng kept a close watch on the association’s activities and frequently commended us on our commitment and meaningful work. His loyalty shone brightly even in challenging times.  When a distasteful article appeared on a major media outlet last year, stirred up by a few detractors seeking to tarnish the reputation of the OPA, he was among the first to personally call me.  With genuine concern, he sought clarification and strongly encouraged me to take the necessary steps to safeguard the good name and integrity of our association.

 

Two years ago, during a meeting at his home where I updated him on the status of the Brother Felix Donahue Student Welfare Fund, I shared the idea of possible merging it with other funds.  His reply was characteristically firm and heartfelt.   “You can merge with any fund you like, but the name of Bro. Felix Donahue must never be changed.”  He then recounted, with deep emotion, the pivotal moment that shaped his lifelong gratitude. 

 

As a schoolboy, the daily routine of slaughtering chickens and delivering newspapers often made him late for school, resulting in frequent penance.  One fateful morning, while struggling with his overloaded bicycle during his newspaper round, he lost his balance and collided with a car.  To his horror, it was Bro. Felix Donahue’s car.  Later that day, as expected, he was sent to see the Bro. Director for being late.  Trembling with fear, young Kwoon Meng anticipated stern punishment.  Instead, Bro. Felix received him with warmth and compassion.  Listening patiently to the boy’s family struggles, the kind educator not only offered practical assistance but also issued him a special “late pass”, an unprecedented gesture in those days, so that he would not miss classes unnecessarily due to penance.  When the young boy presented the pass to the prefects, they were initially sceptical, taking time to verify the signature of Bro. Felix himself.  This single act of kindness left an everlasting impression on Kwoon Meng and became the foundation of his profound sense of gratitude and his lifelong commitment to honouring Bro. Felix’s legacy. 

 

From his family members, come these poignant words:  “With these cherished memories, we thank everyone who has been part of Kwoon Meng’s journey.  We hope he will be remembered for the ways he has touched your lives and remain in your hearts as we celebrate his life.”

 

Kwoon Meng lived a life defined not by wealth or status, but by quiet strength, unwavering loyalty, and boundless generosity.  His legacy continues through every student whose education was made possible by the fund he championed, and through every Paulian who was inspired by his example of giving back. 

 

The Old Paulians’ Association extends our deepest condolence to his wife Nancy, his children and the entire family.  May his soul rest in eternal peace, and may his spirit of compassion and generosity continue to inspire future generations of Paulians.

 

We will always remember you, dear Paulian.  Thank you, Kai Loh.  

 

By Steven Chan Weng Choy